Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Reasons For Love Affairs

By Mina G. Barnard


What could be more blissful than a wedding day? The look of your parents while putting on that white wedding dress and the relative's gratefulness of receiving an invitation are just one of those things you can never ever forget. All these wonderful memories lingering each day, but a sudden change from the gaze of your husband made you feel so empty and wondering.

What exactly is there to do when marriage is under turmoil?

The windows are easy to open if you work at it. The doors can always be unlocked. If your husband is not satisfied with what he is getting, he turns to another woman who can be creative sexually and pacify his wants. Psychologists who specialize in relationships have proved this.

A married man says that he never really imagined himself having sex with other women after his marriage to his love of his life, until such time when he realizes that having sex with his wife seem to be dull.

The first few months until the first anniversary seem so ideal. As if both of them are having so much dreams for the future. Man has said too many times, according to research that even if he is so in love with his wife, he still has this sexual fantasies with other women.

There are cases wherein the husband still sees his wife as his ultimate partner but at the same time, his sexual fantasies are not met due to cultural restrictions.

The worst thing that can ever happen in this husband and wife relationship is separation. When the wife finds out about her husband infidelity, who would not think about divorce? They would talk about all the issues regarding his infidelity and the bottom line would still be unsatisfied sex life.

Open communication without inhibitions to talk about anything especially sex is the key to a happy marriage life. A big teasing smile early in the morning would zing up your sexual life.




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